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Date with Destiny – Anthony Robbins

With Date with Destiny (DWD) coming upon us quickly, it’s worth the time to reflect on what areas on our lives we’d like to improve. By having the end result in mind, it will stack the odds in our favour in succeeding.

What’s an area where you’re not succeeding at the level you desire? Chances are, you’ll have some conflicting values. 

I’m going to take you through an exercise I developed which has helped me tremendously. I call it Transforming Your Values. A lot of it is based on Anthony Robbin’s technology where I’ve taken it and put my own spin to add value. You can download a workbook I created to help you through the exercise from here: Right Click and Save As – 480kb 

First thing to do is to write down 5 areas in your life you value. There may be more you’d like to add, but let’s start off with 5 in this example. 

1. Relationships
2. Health and Fitness
3. Wealth
4. Career / Mission
5. Spirituality 

Once you have these listed out, lets look at it with the 6 human needs in mind. We’ll be honest about this and score them where they currently are, and where we want them to be. For information on the 6 human needs, visit – HERE. 

For example, Joe Blogs might have the following for relationships with his spouse 

Current scores for relationships 

1. Certainty – 4
2. Variety – 2
3. Significance – 3
4. Connection and Love – 3
5. Growth – 1
6. Contribution – 1 

Desired scores for relationships 

1. Certainty – 10
2. Variety – 9
3. Significance – 8
4. Connection and Love – 10
5. Growth – 10
6. Contribution – 10 

Once you have these, ask yourself the following questions.  

In order for certainty to be a 10, what to has to happen?
In order for Variety to be a 9, what to has to happen?
In order for Significance to be a 8, what to has to happen?
In order for Connection and Love to be a 10, what to has to happen?
In order for Growth to be a 10, what to has to happen?
In order for Contribution to be a 10, what to has to happen?

You’ll start writing out your rules. For some this may be a pleasant surprise, or it may be shocking. For most people, you’ll find out that some of these rules are set up in a way that makes it very difficult or even impossible for you to win the game of life. It’ll become obvious in order for you to continue your growth, these rules MUST change. 

Once this has been written down, start brain storming ways of redefining your rules that allows you to win the game more often and empowers you.

For example, one of Joe Blogs rules in order to feel certain about being wealthy is to have $50 million dollars in his bank account and driving a Lamborghini Gallaro LP560-4. Joe Blogs may redefine the rule so he can feel wealthy NOW by changing it to, being certain his family loves him no matter what making him one of the wealthiest people in the world. This shift flows into other areas in his life where he can focus on how abundantly wealthy his life is, rather than what he doesn’t have.

Complete this exercise with the other areas in your life. It will give you a greater awareness of why you do the things you do, why you may excel in some areas, while being deficient in other areas. Take note of the rules in one area which may also conflict with another area. 

I’ve given you a lot at this stage, but there’s going to be some people who will have trouble taking this from an intellectual thought into something that’s real. In order to get the best effect of this, I’ll leave the transformation part to Anthony Robbins, not that I can’t do it, but being immersed in a peak state environment, it will have a larger impact and maximise your results. 

By completing this exercise before attending DWD, you’ll be able to supercharge your results at the end of DWD, which will send you into orbit. Make sure you bring your workbook to Date with Destiny to refer back to them. 

If you’re thinking of attending Date with Destiny in April 18th – 23rd 2009 on the Gold Coast and you haven’t purchased your ticket yet, get your ticket now. As we move closer towards the date, prices have known to increase as tickets run out. To purchase your Anthony
Robbins – Date with Destiny (DWD) tickets click – HERE. 

Other preparation you’ll need to take are: 

• Make time to attend the event. If you need to take annual leave, book ahead in advance to ensure you don’t miss out.
• Make travel arrangements if you’re coming from interstate. Be sure to book in early. The later this is left, the lower the chances are of finding the travel arrangements you desire. By booking ahead you can generally make a saving.
• Book your DWD accommodation. This is very simular booking travel arrangements. If you want to share accommodation, we’ve created a thread in facebook to help accommodate communications. To register your interest, click – HERE.
• Bring your workbook from this exercise
• Prepare to play FULL OUT! 

I’d love to hear your feedback in the mean time. Otherwise I’ll see you everyone there

P.S. Be sure to add me to your facebook friends. I can be found at HERE. 

God Bless and live with PASSION! 

Cheers,
Aaron Leung